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DVD Profiler Unlimited RegistrantStar Contributorsurfeur51
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And whatever you may be....


And thank you for that...
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And whatever you may be....


And thank you for that...

Could we please stop that.
All I tried to say is that I don't know anything about you, so where's the offence?
It all seems so stupid, it makes me want to give up!
But why should I give up, when it all seems so stupid?


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All I tried to say is that I don't know anything about you, so where's the offence?


I grant you that this one was unvoluntary. That doesn't change anything to your PM which was voluntary, and the fact that you put it in public forum even more voluntary. Once again, try to read what others write before calling them.
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Once again, try to read what others write before calling them.

Same for you.

If you refer in a public discussion to a PM and by this accuse me of voluntarily insulting you, then I think it's only fair to publish this PM in it's context to show that there wasn't anything more hurting in my PM than the accusation of voluntary tearing my sentences apart and out of their context to find something that might be understood as an insult if you only want to find one.

Possibly there's nothing I can say that you will not turn into an imaginary insult, even saying "Thank you" and saying that I think of you as being honest is voluntarily misunderstood.

So probably it's best to stop this here.
I will no longer comment on anything you write publicly or in a PM.
Hope you're feeling better now.
It all seems so stupid, it makes me want to give up!
But why should I give up, when it all seems so stupid?


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Hope you're feeling better now.


Don't worry for me. I never felt bad. Perhaps after some time, you'll understand what I meant and reconsider your position.

BTW, I never used the word "insult" about one of your post.
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And what exactly was that one for?
It all seems so stupid, it makes me want to give up!
But why should I give up, when it all seems so stupid?


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Or you are still in the same mood as in your voluntarily hurting last PM... I think I even prefered when you called me a blackmailer...


Totally off-topic, but since surfeur51 chose to turn this into something personal and  there might be people who might understand this as he wrote it here's the complete correspondence that he was refering to.

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...then the rules needs to be changed, that's the bottom line!


I suppose that after such an opinion, users like Skipnet50 will soon jump on you. He is VERY proud to be the father of those rules and for him it is a CRIME to say anything against them.

Not quite correct,
even Skip agrees that the rules need to be fixed (at least I understood him that way).
What he and several other users (me included) don't like is that some users break the rules intentionally.
Requesting a change is one thing, publicly announcing to break the rules is something completely different.


Please, be serious. You will never find anything where I asked to break the rules. I just ask that rules should be modified to correct typos, and use common sense  when odd issues appear. For that Skip compared me with gestapo and men of Vichy. And that is not an old thing, he did it again by PM  two weeks ago, explaining that he was correct from an american point of view.

I never understood why you are fascinated by this guy, and I'm sorry you made him your idol.

Have anyway a good afternoon.


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Oh,
I wasn't exactly writing about you, but if you think the shoe fits you. I personally don't think so.

Skip is not my idol, it just happens that we have the same opinion in some cases.
I still think of me as being strictly neutral. But possibly that's only me, when I look through my recent postings I have to realize that I'm quite often on the lines of Skip. But other then users like Hal, or you I'm not automatically in opposition if Skip writes something, I read what he has to say first and if it makes sense I agree, if not I don't. The same goes for your or Hal's or any others postings.

Greetings to France

Michael


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I have to realize that I'm quite often on the lines of Skip.


Even when he speaks of gestapo and Vichy...
In your answer, you just forgot to speak of the main point that poisons the relationship between him and me... As long as he will PM me to repeat he really means it, it will be impossible for me to discuss in a normal way with him.
I take your silence as an approval, I suppose, as you say, it makes sense to you, and, I'm sorry, but under those circumstances, your greetings have not much value.

Have a good evening.

Yves

PS. About the shoe that fits or not me, it seems that you answered to me, not to anybody else.


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Sorry if I got something wrong again.
But your answer seems somewhat paranoid to me.
So would you please stop tearing my statements out of their context and interpreting something I neither wrote nor meant, as you very well know.
I understand that you got terribly hurt by Skip, and accidentaly by me too. I asked you accept my apologies for that, obviously this was asked too much.
The main difference between you and me is that I live in the present looking for the future, you seem to live in the past neither willing to forgive a mistake, nor to see that you probably made some too.

So what am I supposed to say, ... it wasn't me who compared you with criminals, and believe me for a German the comparison to the GeStaPo really is an insult that is hardly to surpass. I see no excuse for Skip concerning these insults, but for me this doesn't invalid Skip's opinion in total. I very well see that he is concerned about the consistency of the database. As long as he stays issue-related with his argument noone really can deny that (except for you and Hal of course).
And there we have a point that I cannot understand at all, why is it that someone gets so angry about someone that he stops seeing that this "someone" still might have something valuable to say.
The way I see it is this attitude that makes war possible.

So once more I'm neither on your side, nor on Skip's, I'm solely on my side.
I don't need and don't have any allies in this forum, it's a hobby, not war.
As I wrote before: I'm always in for a good discussion as long as it stays fair, so personal insults will not be supported or written by me (at least not on purpose).

Have a good night.

Michael


Once more: Surfeur, not everything I write is directly written for you or to be understood as an attack on you. Unlike your personal opinion I really have more important things to think about than you and how to hurt you.
But as I wrote on another occasion: "It's easy to offend someone who wants to be offended" or in your case: people looking for hurtful remarks will find them everywhere.


Thank you for all of your enlightening remarks!

If you truly paid attention, you would see that your assertion that I always take the opposite position from Skip no matter what is totally untrue.  Skip and I agree on at least as many issues as we disagree on.  The difference is that I am not compelled to comment on almost every subject that is posted here.

And no, the red arrows weren't from me either.
Hal
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Hello, Hal,
somehow I waited for your response, because if anyone has the right to be offended by this post it's you. Your name got drawn into a series of PMs which then got published by me.
My bad and I accept the consequences.
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Thank you for all of your enlightening remarks!

If you truly paid attention, you would see that your assertion that I always take the opposite position from Skip no matter what is totally untrue.  Skip and I agree on at least as many issues as we disagree on.  The difference is that I am not compelled to comment on almost every subject that is posted here.


Sorry,
but that's the impression I had, possibly because I didn't pay the necessary attention, or possibly because in the more prominent topics this very often seems to be the case.


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And no, the red arrows weren't from me either.


Never said or thought they might have been.
If it would have been you, you would have said so and explained the reason why.
It all seems so stupid, it makes me want to give up!
But why should I give up, when it all seems so stupid?


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And what exactly was that one for?


As for the first,  it's not me, but, as for the first, I think it would have been deserved, had the reputation system the smallest signification. 

The first red arrow is deserved because in your PM post, you are agressive and voluntary hurting, as I already wrote, and the second is deserved because you refuse to admit that. The fact that someone who is not concerned gives this opinion should bring you to question yourself, and not to feel attacked.
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If you truly paid attention, you would see that your assertion that I always take the opposite position from Skip no matter what is totally untrue.  Skip and I agree on at least as many issues as we disagree on.  The difference is that I am not compelled to comment on almost every subject that is posted here.


Sorry,
but that's the impression I had, possibly because I didn't pay the necessary attention, or possibly because in the more prominent topics this very often seems to be the case.


That is because of the nature of this medium.  When someone simply agrees with others in a thread, most simply make a single post to that effect and move on to other topics.  It can easily be missed.  However, when you disagree with others, then there can be (and often is, especially around here) lengthy back and forth, with both sides beating their points to death and usually repeating themselves at least ten times (yes, I am guilty of this as well).

I believe that even Skip would agree that we don't disagree on everything.  But when we do, we tend to get very "passionate" about our positions.
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You just shouldn't contribute such data because it doesn't match the actual credits, and that is still the No.1 goal of this main database.


What do you want to prove with this post ?

You perfectly know that I do not contribute, as you are among those who reproach me to say always the same thing. And when I don't write about rules and contributions,  you " remember" me how it works !!!

Or you are still in the same mood as in your voluntarily hurting last PM... I think I even prefered when you called me a blackmailer...

Same question to you:  What did YOU want to prove with YOUR post?  Except to tell everyone in these forums  again, for the umpteenth time that you (1) don't agree with the rules, (2) want to do things your own way, (3) don't contribute.  Once again, you play the victim.  You can't stand someone posting something without taking the opportunity to whine about how dissatisfied you are with the rules.  Then when someone criticizes you about your incessant whining THEY are the ones at fault.  BOO HOO!
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You just shouldn't contribute such data because it doesn't match the actual credits, and that is still the No.1 goal of this main database.


What do you want to prove with this post ?

You perfectly know that I do not contribute, as you are among those who reproach me to say always the same thing. And when I don't write about rules and contributions,  you " remember" me how it works !!!

Or you are still in the same mood as in your voluntarily hurting last PM... I think I even prefered when you called me a blackmailer...

Same question to you:  What did YOU want to prove with YOUR post?  Except to tell everyone in these forums  again, for the umpteenth time that you (1) don't agree with the rules, (2) want to do things your own way, (3) don't contribute.  Once again, you play the victim.  You can't stand someone posting something without taking the opportunity to whine about how dissatisfied you are with the rules.  Then when someone criticizes you about your incessant whining THEY are the ones at fault.  BOO HOO!


I'm tired to give you green arrows. I block you. Bye.
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If you truly paid attention, you would see that your assertion that I always take the opposite position from Skip no matter what is totally untrue.  Skip and I agree on at least as many issues as we disagree on.  The difference is that I am not compelled to comment on almost every subject that is posted here.


Sorry,
but that's the impression I had, possibly because I didn't pay the necessary attention, or possibly because in the more prominent topics this very often seems to be the case.


That is because of the nature of this medium.  When someone simply agrees with others in a thread, most simply make a single post to that effect and move on to other topics.  It can easily be missed.  However, when you disagree with others, then there can be (and often is, especially around here) lengthy back and forth, with both sides beating their points to death and usually repeating themselves at least ten times (yes, I am guilty of this as well).

I believe that even Skip would agree that we don't disagree on everything.  But when we do, we tend to get very "passionate" about our positions.


I absolutely agree with, hal on this and we are both pretty hard-headed, in my case it's mahogany. I may get angry at hal, but he remains an old friend, no matter how passionately we may disagree on something, there are some buttons he likes to push but...hye that is probably because he knows me to some degree.

@surfeur:

A very adult response, keep going and you will only be talking to yourself.

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See that 'goblinsdoitall'.  I told you Skip and I do not disagree on everything!   
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I find it a bit interesting that surfeur51 has no identifying items on his 'non-avatar ID page' to identify who he (or she)  is ,, or what country,  or what his (or hers)  tastes in DVD movies are like..
It's like he is 'hiding'  from us.. I kinda rememeber where and with his / name name spelt like it is.. I think surfeur51 comes from France.. like the Coneheads .. 

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...  or what his (or hers)  tastes in DVD movies are like..


If you want to know my tastes in movies, you can read those 460 movie reviews. I'm not really hiding as those links have been  already on those forums for long.

And if you want to get red arrows, you should try elsewhere... 
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